My Journey From A Depressed Angry Person To Making Miracles Happen Every Day. If I Can Do It, You Can Do It!

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Daniele Fiori

Daniele helps people transform there life and make an impact in the world. He is a philosopher, an open-minded lifetime learner, a spiritual researcher and healer, a life hacker, a personal development expert and a life coach.

Prelude

“There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.” - Albert Einstein

Miracles happen every day. You have just to learn to see them. To see the world with different eyes. You can also make miracles happen. You just need to know it is possible.

"Every man takes the limits of his own vision for the limits of the world." -Arthur Schopenhauer

Learn to expand your vision because the possibilities are infinite. You can create and life an abundant life full of happiness, success, wealth, and love and impact this world positively.

Expand your vision by believing and telling yourself every day:

Today is going to be the best day ever
Everything is always working out
I have unlimited potential
All the answers lie within me
Anything is possible and can be achieved
I can do and be anything I choose

Do you know that story, right?

The story of Roger Bannister breaking the four-minute mile barrier in 1954. Nobody could do that. People had believed it wasn't possible.

Well, Roger Bannister had a greater vision. And he made a miracle happens.

Since then the "four-minute barrier" has been broken by many athletes.

And now, after this short introduction, I want to recount you my story. A simple story wich I believe can inspire many to overcome their limitations and create and live a better life.

Because If I can do it, you can do it and everybody can do it!

If someone can do it, in most cases, everybody can do it!

"If someone can do it, I can do it, If no one can do it or has done it yet, I will try and do it. I believe, in fact, possibilities are infinite." -Daniele Fiori

My Story

I was born in Italy in a small city of about 30000 habitants. I was just an average kid with an average family living an average life. With ups and downs. Good days and bad days. Overall I was a happy kid.
 
Growing up as teenager life got harder. Well, you know teenagers. They don't like rules. They don't understand the adult world. They feel impotent, abused and are often angry at everything.

I can't really recount you a very sad story or an incredible one. Like you couldn't. Like almost everybody that didn't endure hard abusing experiences couldn't.

I was just an average teenager living an average life. Growing up I always felt like something was wrong, unfair, false and I always had the desire, the passion and the curiosity to look for more in order to find a sense out of life, society, God, and everything.

I started studying everything that could have helped me to understand and find a sense out of life. From religions to philosophies to any type of science as psychology, sociology, anthropology, physiology, anatomy, biology, physics, astrophysics, neuroscience, etc. But I wasn't able to find a meaning to life and to this world. To my eyes, it was only a meaningless movement of matter. You born, you die. And that was it. A senseless movement. Add to all of this my shyness and my back then introvert character and you can maybe understand that I was doomed to sadness and depression which in fact, little by little, were growing inside me.  

It wasn't also helping the fact that I didn't like our society. I couldn't find any hopes in regard to the possibility to improve our society, my peers, and the humanity. To my eyes, They were just a pretty egoistic and materialistic society and people.

I was dreaming and wanting to write something important that could help to change this world and the humanity for the better, however, I was definitely missing the power and the motivation to do it. I wanted to do it mainly for myself in order to show the world how special I was. But I couldn't. I was feeling it was wrong, egoistic and selfish. Yes, something was missing.

One day I decided I had enough of my little beautiful city and I needed to go away to be free and experiment. I needed to connect, live and love. You know, my little city is a wonderful place. However, in such place sometimes is easy to feel trapped.

When an occasion was presented to me, I took it without thinking too much and left my country and my small city.

I went on my journey through life, experience, and experiments. Love, sex, drugs, alcohol, traveling, working, living. I was living a random and active life. I guess I was just trying not to think that something was missing. That there was a hole somewhere inside me. That this life wasn't making sense to me.

One day I have found love. The real love. That love that fills holes and gives a meaning to everything. And little by little growing and developing toward becoming a complete mature man and person I started feeling the need to be a father, make a family, connect and cooperate with others, and contribute to my society.

That was the moment when my individualism and egoism started being matched with my altruism and my need to be part and connect. When I finally become a complete human being.

However life was still feeling random, out of control, and I was still feeling impotent and lost. My relationship was not going very well. My newborn child and the change connected with his birth was making everything even harder. Hard to communicate, connect, and understand each other.

My anger which in the last years had replaced my depression were destroying everything.

I was angry at everything and at everyone. Expecting everything and everyone to be and behave according to my "should be" and "must". My anger blasts and the inability to control them were destroying everything good in my life.

One day my heart started beating our of control without any sign of stopping. I remembered that I had some genetic problem and I was supposed to keep it under control and had lived a healthy life.

Well sometimes things just get out of tracks and you can even forget what you shouldn't. Sometimes you forget because you need it.

At the hospital, they told me that something was wrong and I needed to do some checks. Later the cardiologist told me that I would have needed to have an open heart operation very soon.

And while nowadays this type of operations are kind of normal operation with a high success rate and give you a fair average long life expectation, in that moment, I felt like I was going to die and that I had very little left.

But isn't this true for all of us? Sure 2 years is nothing. But what about 10, 20, 30, 80? Is that so long that we can allow ourselves the luxury to waste it?

That day something changed. It was not the idea of dying that shook me, it was more the idea that I had wasted my life, living out of control, far from happiness, success, and connection, far from being any good for people around me, from my partner to my newborn child to friends, family, and humanity in general.

I needed to change, in order to be a good model and example for my son, become a great partner for my love, a better son, brother, relative, friend, and a better human being in order to try and contribute to making this world a better place.

Yes, to try at least. You don't always succeed. But can you really live, without regrets if you haven't even tried?

That day I started working on myself, to improve myself and my life, and positively impact the community, the society, and the world. To feel I was living a life worth to be lived. A life with no regrets.

From that day I am fully dedicated to personal development and to make this world a better place.

I sure embrace my past and I know it is what made me what I am today. I don't cry over it. I don't cry over failure and mistakes. Wasted time and opportunities.  I use them to learn from in order to be guided toward improvement, grown and abundance.

Nowadays, I am a strong, calm, balanced, confident, happy person. My health is very good. My heart problem is stable for now. I am motivated, focused and committed. And I try to be as much helpful, kind and compassionate as I can. Still far from being perfect, of course! Always looking for new ways to grow and improve.

Unfortunately, not all are as lucky as me.

In many cases, people need some kind of a shocker in life to simulate them to evolve, look for more, grow, and many of us are not that lucky to ever have such opportunity. Many people just remain stuck forever in a life of boredom, pain, depression, impotence, anger, and/or mediocrity.

In spite of that, I believe that we are all able to evolve if we can really realize how short life is and that we can't allow ourselves to waste it. If we can realize that, we can then start the journey to becoming our greater self, creating an abundant life and impacting positively the world.

For whatever reasons you are stuck, you still have choices and possibilities and you can transform your life and yourself.

All the pains, sufferance, abuses, the feelings of inadequacy and impotence, and the boredom we have gone through, and the sadness and depression connected to it and connected with the unfairness and meaningless of life are actually a great sign, a sign that we are not going to settle for it.

Yes, you are suffering, however, this is like the suffering of the caterpillar which is going to die to let the butterfly born and live.

You won't settle because you feel like there is something more. You are ready to transform and evolve. You just need to see or find a way.

Unfortunately, most of the times, people are just stuck and can't see beyond it, beyond all the suffering and the senselessness. And it easy to become a pessimist or even become depressed.

Is the glass half full or half empty?

Actually, there are just 50ml of water. Is it enough for you? Are you going to complain and suffer all your life about it? I don't want to condemn you. You probably can't see beyond it yet.

But things can be simpler than you think.

Just drink the water and go find a river, a lake, a sea.

Your life has may be terrible or boring or without opportunities and you maybe feel depressed, sad, impotent. Well in a way it doesn't matter what happened. In fact, you can't change that. What you can change is what you will do from now on.

“We can't choose where we come from, but we can choose where we go from there.” - Stephen Chbosky

And if the sufferance and the depression are a sign that you are ready to transform, the best way to do it is by rewriting your story in an empowering one where past sufferance and abuses are what make you unique and give you the fuel not to set but evolve and go to look for more.

If you are stuck with a boring routine, unhealthy negative habits, in the middle of your comfort zone, THINK about how short this life is and ASK YOURSELF if you are fine to waste it or it is maybe the time to make the first step and start the journey to transform into a limitless human being and make an impact in this fantastic world.

That day, I did choose to do it. And I have been using all my knowledge, experiences, efforts and energy to transform myself, my life, help other people doing the same and impact the world in order to create a better future for the humanity.

I have been experimenting, learning, evolving, studying, finding and discovering new and ancient knowledge and I have forged a simple but yet very powerful system to help everyone transform their life and impact the world. I am confident that together we can make this world a better place.

And this is also the reason why I have chosen to do this by using the English language which is not my native language and at which I am not perfect (even though by now to me it is a natural language).

For the reason of being able to connect with more people and having a greater and faster impact.

Maybe a few people will be unhappy and criticize my choice. Maybe they will criticize me and my English and even laugh at me and my ideas. Well, I don't care.

I need to make an impact. To make this world a better place. And to do this I need to reach as many people as possible as fast as possible.

We need to make an impact now. We can't wait to be perfect because we can't be. Nobody can. And we can't wait to make everybody happy because there will always be someone that will criticize me, us, you. That will hate you and go against you.

We need instead to concentrate on our supporters, fans, happy positive people, collaborators, good masters and we need to act now.


Now is the time. I can't waste my life any longer and neither you should.



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